The private line for modern dating

Move from match to meeting — with more privacy, control, and support.

Private messaging without phone numbers. User-approved date planning. Share your plans with a trusted contact and set optional check-ins — all in one place.

How Jive works

From match to date. No phone number required.

01

Create your profile

Set up in about 60 seconds and get your unique Jive link.

02

Share your Jive

Give your match your Jive link instead of your phone number. You decide who can message you.

03

Talk. Make plans. Meet.

When the connection feels right, Jive can help identify a time that works and suggest a place you'll both enjoy. You make the move. Jive handles the planning.

How conversations become dates

Jive helps you move from matching online to meeting in person — without giving out your number.

Step 1

Create your Jive

A private link for dating, conversation, and planning

Create a simple profile and receive a unique Jive link you can share with people you meet online.

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Your Jive is ready to share

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Dating apps help you match. Jive helps you meet.

Private messaging, easier planning, and help when you're stuck — all in one place. You make the move. Jive makes planning easier.

Everything you need to connect

Thoughtful tools for meaningful conversations.

Private by default

Share a link, not your phone number. Approve who can message you. Block anyone, anytime.

Request-to-Message

No cold DMs. People request permission before they can message you.

User-approved date planning

See when you're both free without sharing your calendar. You choose the place and time — Jive helps with ideas.

Share plans with a trusted contact

Send a private, read-only link with your date details. It expires after the date and can be revoked anytime.

Optional check-ins

Set a safety check-in reminder. If you miss it, we'll remind you first — and only contact a trusted person if you asked us to.

Help when you're stuck

Get suggestions when you need them. You stay in control of every message you send.

Relationship References

Invite up to two friends or family to independently support your stated relationship status — more transparency, not guaranteed proof. Planned for beta.

Ready to try Jive?

We're rolling out slowly. Join the beta waitlist and we'll let you know when your invite is ready.

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